Date The Real Me
Product

Features

Everything in Date The Real Me, and how each feature works.

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Selfie verification

After you sign up, you take a short selfie check. We confirm a live person is taking it and compare it with your profile photos, with manual review when the automatic check can’t decide. Members who pass get a verified badge. No ID document is needed.

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Glance

See people who match your Date Filters on the Today tab and send a Glance, with an icebreaker if you like. If they accept, you’re matched. Everyone can send up to 20 Glances a day.

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Explore and Waves

Choose to go live on the Explore map and see people nearby who have done the same. Send a Wave to say hello. Other members see an approximate position, never your exact location.

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Chat and plan dates

Message your matches and plan a video date or an in-person meetup from the conversation.

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Video dates

Meet a match face to face in the app before you meet in person. Calls run 2 or 5 minutes on the Free plan; Plus and Gold add a 15-minute option. Both people must be verified.

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Passport (Gold)

Gold members can set Date Filters to another city and meet people there, which is handy when you travel or plan a move.

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Block and report

Block or report anyone from their profile or your conversation. Our team reviews reports and can suspend or remove accounts.

Plans and prices are on our Pricing page.